Yeah, I can see the dilemma with those options.
I'm a sucker for "It's better to have loved and lost, than to never love at all." So, I'd be happy with option 1 or 2, or maybe a combination of the two.
As for option 3, that just seems like a continuation of CN Coran from the BG1NPC Project. Don't get me wrong, I like CN Coran, but I prefer CG Coran.