You know, Da_venom, your post is much much nicer than mine. That red warning is so helpful sometimes, giving us a chance to ponder -should I really hit post?
Anyone who abhors violence should not read the following cautionary tale.
I heard a story about fatal computer use. A young English man, in the prime of his life, who sometimes made the error of making well, nonsensical statements along the lines that reading, writing and computer use is just as bad for your health as regular drug use, and then when anyone pointed out that this was an extremely stupid thing to say got shirty and insinuated those people were unreasonable and stupid, and one night he woke up to find his room filled with all the people he had ever flamed and they beat him to death with his own computer monitor. An autopsy revealed he had been forced to swallow the letters i a m r e l y d u b before his awful agonising death. A jury of authors, librarians and computer game creators found the forum members charged with the poor young man's untimely death "Not Guilty" on the grounds that someone should have done it years ago. And they all lived happily ever after.