Yeah, I'm a shover addict
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I guess I have to do something with this
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I don't think you meant to use the word emasculate there.
Also, most people who are psychologically something are going to tend to adjust their physical appearance to match. I'd femaleise my face if I had the slightest idea about makeup. Or at least de-maleise. I was going to look into long term hair removal stuff, but money is short.
Physical appearance is irrevelant to psychological traits.
Psychological androgyny is rather about removing masculine/feminine tags from various traits and behaviour and picking those that makes one a complete human being than adjusting ones physical appearance.
Actually realising that I don't have to change much about my physical appearance was a liberating experience.
I had a brief obsession with removing most of my body hair(especially my legs hair^^ . All those models have so smooth legs. I wanted to have smoooooooth and sexy legs toooooooooooooooo
), but it was really brief and now I can't imagine myself without leg hair and I don't find girls with shaved legs so attractive as before.
Also, what do washing your hair, showering twice a day+ (twice a day, wtf? Once should be enough!) and using deoderant and makeup have to do with your place of residence and movement methods?
Nothing, but it was my response to being compared to a caveman
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I need shover at least twice a day - after waking up (to be fresh and not sweaty) and before going to sleep.
Also, how is your statement that "WOMEN SHOULD NEVER WEAR MAKEUP" any different to "WOMEN SHOULD ALWAYS WEAR MAKEUP" (aside from one has never and the other has always).
And where I said that "WOMEN SHOULD NEVER WEAR MAKEUP"?I don't recall saying so^^.
Saying that "WOMEN SHOULD NEVER WEAR MAKEUP" would be a tyrany.
I said that I prefer to look at girls/women that don't wear make-up and I dislike looking at girls/women that don't wear make-up.
But I like when girls/women
choice not to wear make-up.
And as for your feminine traits. I'm yet to see them. Only one that's coming through here is insistence that you're right despite whatever opposition you might face, and a derivation of superiority from said position. which is a MALE trait. If we'regoing along those lines.
1. learned it from my mother, therefore it's a feminine trait
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It's feminine, because my mother is a woman.
So, it's either a feminine trait, or it proves my point about inexistence of feminine and masculine traits^^.
2. I never said that I feel superior, I would rather say that I feel frustrated^^.
Also, I tend to get convinced by other people if they are evidently right and I'm evidently wrong.
The problem in this discussion is that each side is right or wrong depending on what they value more.
This discussion is tiring me, because I don't like conflicts, but I think that presenting my world view and my reasons for it is more improtant than my psychological discomfort.
From the history of my country I've learned that being silent about ones ideals and experiences is the best way to make them die out
As for keeping my position regardless of opposition, I retreated from position of hating everyone who drink, so I don't see this argument as valid.
3. It's hard to see any non-war-related traits of someone who is writing in a discussion which is at least as stressful as religious and political threads^^.
4. I shouldn't say that I have feminine traits, because I didn't find any evidence that supports their existance.
I've seen universal and cultural traits being called feminine or masculine, but they aren't really feminine or masculine by themselves.
Usualy, feminine traits are also masculine traits that have other name so calling them masculine or feminine is sexism.
I don't know what type of make up you used in the past, but it's not supposed to be painful. Some cosmetic products not only enhance beauty, but actually contain ingredients that are beneficial to your skin.
Sorry, I was writing about things that people to do to alter their looks in general.
For example I recently discovered why my skin hurts for about two weeks after shaving, no matter if I shaved clean or left few milimeters of hair.
Curly, sharpened hair and skin don't get along :/.
As for cosmetic products, I prefer to include ingredients that are beneficia to my skin in my diet. It's cheaper and less tedious than rubbing various creams, balsam etc. into skin...
Yeah and it smells less.
I'm bored with you now. Your whole superiority complex and inability to accept that as human beings we tend to be diverse is sad, laughable, and irritating.
I'm defending diversity.I'm tired with ongoing standardisation of human beings.
For example the damned make-up thing - if there were diversity, there would be a significant amount of girls/women dislike make-up.
There aren't.
Why?
Because pictures in magazines show that women wear make-up.
Why?
Because magazines are created by people that believe that women should wear make-up or people who want to sell make-up.
So, where is the diversity?
I've never seen a magazine for men/women that actively promotes natural looks.
Why?
It's hard to make money on people who look naturally.
It's all about money.
Same for drinking.
Beer=fun
Party=drinking=fun
Alcohol producers are doing very much people believe that there is no fun without alcohol.
If there was a diversity, there would be a lot of movies portraing people having fun on parties without drinking and there would be parties for non drinking people.
But there aren't.
So, where's the diversity?
There's no chance for diversity, when standards are created by people who sell products that are needed to comply to them.Oh, one more thing:
How this quote
If you're so adamant about certain feminine traits [such as makeup] then maybe you’re looking to find love in the wrong gender.
relates to your statement about
diversity?
Diversity sugests
coexistence of females that like and wear make-up and females that don't like nor wear make-up and thus
would invalidate the statement about make-up being a feminine trait.
[edited for grammar]