I'd play using the following (if I ever got to play, that is):
- From the basic Tutu install
- Default Kits
- No extra sounds
- From Tutufix
- Everything except Walking Speeds
- From Tututweaks
- Various components, but it's probably best for you to decide which ones you want yourself. Personal taste and all.
- Ashes of Embers, Sensible Weapon Restrictions for Tutu (note that it's a separate component of the mod. Don't install the default component for BG2.)
- Mur'Neth NPC
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Gnomebar Finch NPC
- Indira NPC
- Lure of the Sirine's Call
- Bits of BG1NPC (specifically, Montaron, Xzar, Garrick... and I forget the rest. Darn. Eldoth?)
Other mods you might be interested in are Secret of Bonehill, which I know nothing about, and... um, possibly others. If I've forgotten any mods, I blame being tired from working all day.
Anyways, check out the Tutu section on the modlist for a complete list, a link to which can be found on the main site.