Lump , if you go to
www.teambg.com , and you choose mods from the sidebar , you'll get a whole list of mods , ranging from big ones to short ones.
And the advice I would give you on terms of TDD , just download the TOB compatible full mod at fileplanet (you'll find it if you search a little bit on TDD's site, but consider that it is a big mod and that you have to down it from fileplanet --> a queying time)
For the rest , You have SOS = shadows over soubar , a very good mod , TS = tortured souls also reasonably good , the only problem that I have now is that my cd1 of soa is broken, crc error , so I can't play them anymore "was trying out TS but had a bad install --> had to reinstall and couldn't , I then becursed my PC , and still don't know squath about what I can do to rectify it --> would be very happy with some advice".
You have some minor mods ,still relatively big , but they normally act more as romances or so , like kelsey , tashia , nalia (are some problems with concerning other mods) , ... and others .
But the advice I would give you check out teambg.com and you have made one step for man but a gigantic step for mankind ;o)
Oooh and don't worry about your English it's a lot better than mine .
And I'm just from a little country aka Belgium
I hoped this helped , and have fun kicking their asses ;o)