Awww, I loved the friendship path I had with my fighter-thief, but as he was male Xan kept whining he's so lonely and almost started to cry when my pc told him he's looking forward to a loving future with Jaheira -which always feels wrong as I love Khalid/Jaheira above any other canon initiated romance but I imagine my npc a lot like I think Valygar is intended post Bodhi in bonded path- and that they'll probably retire to a cabin in the woods. Felt somewhat bad for Xanny, I kept telling him I still love him but seeing that my pc couldn't he didn't hear.
Then I realized my mistake. I thought that for a friendship path with Xan I wouldn't need to play a girl... I didn't consider this bit about being allowed to flirt with Xan later on. It seems yet another lovely possibility... do I dare to hope that despite some hardships he'll neither die nor break up with my pc? He was really nice towards friendship-pc 1... most of the time. He was still Xan.