I have Nalia and Jaheira both in the party, and Nalia just interrupted one of Jaheira's lovetalks. Problem is, their bickering left out Jaheira's actual question, but the answers are all the same. For reference:
J:I... I worry sometimes...
N: You worry incessantly.
[Bickering continues]
J: I have no patience or time to indulge whatever agenda you are pursuing, Nalia. If my concerns are incompatible with yours, expect no apologies.
Then I get these choices:
1: I do not mind. Yes, I hope to spare them the pain of loss I felt.
2: Those I spent time with as a child; their absence is a great loss to me.
3: Some were valuable to the group, and I have to recoup that loss as soon as possible.
4: I don't know either, because it is none of your business. Keep your topics to the matter at hand.
This (i'm sure) was a 'do you think of those who are gone' talk, but again, she forgets to ask the question itself, hah. Just a tad confusing.