I don't know - I got the idea you were banned from all Dorotea's boards, but I might be mistaken. Did they send you the formal list you requested?
On the problem: I would still recommend posting in the mod's forum before addressing the issue on other forums. From what I see, however, there's a distinctive shortage of "Edwin Flirts Do Not Work In ToB" topics in Edwin Romance forum - so it might be your installation order.
From what I see in the code, you have to install Edwin Flirts _after_ Edwin Romance ToB - otherwise the flirts simply will not compile. Try uninstalling flirts, exiting, checking if Edwin Romance ToB is installed(if it is, great), and running Setup-edwinflirts.exe again.