Hi
Yes, this happened to me. I agree, the conflict IS a bummer, as really it doesn't give one enough time to choose between the two. You will find you will get a few more good lines off Kelsey, then the tag will switch to three and there will be nothing you can do about it
I tried all sorts to change it, but Kelseys writer really doesn't like multi romances. Fear not, Anomens romance is very good, if you have the romance pack installed. Only thing is, if you are a slow player (like me), you keep getting the same lines. You CAN multi-romance Anomen and Solaufien, but beware of the conflict scenario, as you will be forced to choose again. I didn't think much of Solafien, but I know lots of ladies like him.
My decision has been to play the Anomen romance, then start a new game and do the Kelsey one!
Hope this helps
Vixis