You are supposed to "get" that people are different, that manliness and femininity are expressed in different ways, that people do not have to conform to someone else's ideas of what is right because trying to just fucks you up, and you could try not to be overtly offensive under the guise of whimsical humour. And don't try to kiss me, you have not grovelled nearly enough to be granted that privilege.
Sadly Corvis, that was Heifer. Exodud. You know, short bloke, long red and green hair. He was the one toying with the idea of the army. We suggested to Joe in his early ultra-conservative deadshit phase that he should go and pay the ultimate sacrifice for his country, but he resisted the idea quite vigourously. It was very disappointing, as I recall.