Vel, you are in big, big trouble. Right now, the feminist SWAT team is on it's way to deconstruct you.
The problem for Troy was only two people were allegedly in love. If Hector and Achilles had fallen in love, the whole thing would have been very civil.
Borsook: I can only speak from experience. Mr. FPS was extremely surprised to find that I wouldn't be ironing his underwear. We had so many discussions containing the words "But Mum always did!" Even now, after 12 years together, he still seems startled to find that I don't have his mother's total deference to his every whim. When you're in love, everything shines and is perfect. It's when you're sharing daily life, and your love is a familiar item of your mental furniture, and you do things that bug each other that you find out if your love for the person is stronger than the irritations and difficulties of life. Loving becomes an active choice -not just something that happened because of an initial attraction.
Sorrow, put away your shopping list. You don't choose your partner - you choose to maintain the partnership once you have developed the relationship.