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Offline CORVIS TERRIBLE MOUNTAIN GOD

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Re: Regret
« Reply #25 on: December 13, 2004, 06:32:57 PM »
So it's a good thing that I don't feel bad about strangling all those hookers, right?

EDIT:
(I never actually killed a drifter)

 :(
And I was just starting to like you, too.
« Last Edit: December 13, 2004, 06:37:42 PM by Corvis »

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Re: Regret
« Reply #26 on: December 13, 2004, 06:38:05 PM »
So it's a good thing that I don't feel bad about strangling all those hookers, right?

Doesn't matter to me either way, so long as you're thrown in jail for the rest of your life. And someone else cleans out your basement.
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Re: Regret
« Reply #27 on: December 13, 2004, 09:04:25 PM »
Constant regret and wracking guilt are obviously not healthy states of mind.
Being able to regret an action - to take responsibility for it -  acknowledge the pain others felt because of it - these are healthy things to do.
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Re: Regret
« Reply #28 on: December 13, 2004, 09:09:32 PM »
very well said, Eral
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Re: Regret
« Reply #29 on: December 14, 2004, 01:17:26 AM »
Corvis is too lovable to be jailed :)
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Re: Regret
« Reply #30 on: December 14, 2004, 02:22:16 AM »
So it's a good thing that I don't feel bad about strangling all those hookers, right?
Doesn't matter to me either way, so long as you're thrown in jail for the rest of your life.
  as opposed to prison?
  do you think that remorseless criminals and remorseful criminals (all other things (such as offense) being equal) deserve each other's company?  (and no, this isn't a cue for "there's no prison in my backyard" ;))

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Nor have I found guilt to be any kind of motivator, except for motivating people to take drugs and go to psychologists.
  now there's a winning combination. :pirate
 
  one would almost infer that you consider therapy a crutch?

  and Re: setting uber-humanity standards -  i smell a crosspost with the paladin's-code thread in the making.  :P :-X
 
 . . .
  being guilty (hopefully fact-based with value derivation) and feeling guilty (hopefully value-based with factual derivation) are supposedly separate things.  the concept/reality of responsibility is only a bit of a crossover between the two, since 'responsible' is something you can also be and/or feel.  to be sure, taking responsibility is generally more advisable than 'taking guilt'.
  however, accountability is a bit more distinct from the rest, and is more likely the unnamed common ground between some of the prior arguments in this thread.  the difference of opinion seems to be over what is a more or less effective agent of accountability.  more than one way to skin a cat, and so on.
 
 

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Re: Regret
« Reply #31 on: December 14, 2004, 05:45:22 PM »
So it's a good thing that I don't feel bad about strangling all those hookers, right?

Doesn't matter to me either way, so long as you're thrown in jail for the rest of your life. And someone else cleans out your basement.

That might take awhile.  :)


I have learned 3 things (basically to just reinforce what a fair few of people have said so far) that you should when you make a mistake:

1. Realize it's your fault (for the most part anyway)

2. Apologize for it

3. Try not to do it again.

Hm, actually, I don't think thats how it really went, but thats how it should go.



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Re: Regret
« Reply #32 on: December 15, 2004, 12:31:41 AM »
I regret the making of this thread. I really do.
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Re: Regret
« Reply #33 on: December 15, 2004, 12:38:25 AM »
I regret the making of this thread. I really do.

  there, there.  you'll know better next time. ::)
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Re: Regret
« Reply #34 on: December 15, 2004, 01:20:51 AM »
Btw: Ms Otis regrets she is unable to lunch today.
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Re: Regret
« Reply #35 on: December 15, 2004, 03:52:18 AM »
I now regret replying...   :'(

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Re: Regret
« Reply #36 on: December 15, 2004, 04:54:40 PM »
I regret not putting on my Santa hat sooner.

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Re: Regret
« Reply #37 on: December 15, 2004, 09:35:01 PM »
I started wearing my real santa hat today at work.  It is one of the most awesome santa hats you could possibly imagine.  It's long and dangly, and glitters.  Looks like something you'd get from La Senza (assuming it came with a matching glittering thong and bra).
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